YES ... IT'S COMPLICATED ( coz u made it )

It’s we who make our life complicated. It’s we who make the life abstruse. Ambitions, success, failures are all trap and we get trapped  in them from head to toe. If we want  to be happy , then all we need to  do is introspection . We actually need to see what make us happy.

For some happiness is found in the work they do , others find it in social networking , entertainment through media . Some find that happiness in luxury item and some even find their share of happiness in making others happy . So find out yours.

My experience with life has been as banal as yours. Yes , still searching for that eternal peace of mind .Did lot of introspection …. dipped myself  thoroughly in my inner self and realized that being happy is the  easiest thing in this world . All we need to do is to be “EASY IN OUR THINKING” . We need to lay emphasis on simplicity . Now by simplicity ,I really didn’t mean that you stop being a diva , stop wearing stylish clothes ,stop being sophisticated , stop using the trendy gadgets that make life simple . A strict  No No.. to these thoughts , if they are flooding through your mind . What I mean  by simplicity is “simplicity in your  thoughts “. Stop flaunting !! Stop being pretentious!!  . You are answerable to none other than yourself.

Believe me .. if you win yourself .. you will relish the life in a complacent manner  . If  you promise yourself and cannot stick to it then  compunction will eat you from within .We really never need to have competitors .. as we have ourselves to compete . A race against ourselves is all we need to work on .And before applying this golden rule , stop yourself from being cynic because ray of hope is all that we need.

Another secret of happiness that I got to know through the introspection is that no matter how big our friend-circle is . No matter how supportive our family members are.NEVER HOLD EXPECTATIONS FROM ANYONE. You have come alone in this world . You will have to leave this world all alone  . Spend good time with everyone and help anyone and everyone who needs it  . Acquire the power and potential so that you are in the state of helping rather than being helped.

The other dimension which I want to pen down is that we get hurt when others hurt us . But is it others who are hurting us ? No. It’s we who get hurt because, it’s we who have given them the right to do so .. We meet so many people in our life , but not everyone gets close to us . We need to be really open with our minds and hearts to welcome anyone and everyone to enter our lives and similarly we need to have the open state of mind and heart when they hurt us . We should allow them to leave us when and where they want because relationships are like sand in hand . The firmer you make your grip to hold them ( the more we try to make them our own ) the more it passes away and we lose them . If someday in future , those gems of your life wish to come back to you .. welcome them as before . I may be sounding a bit philosophical and saintly figure while I am saying these lines but I woo these golden rules if implemented will gift you the eternal peace for which you have been longing so far.